How long should a wedding ceremony really be before people start checking their phones?

It’s the question every modern couple (and celebrant!) faces: how long should a wedding ceremony. The sweet spot? No longer than 30 minutes. That might sound short, but trust me - when a ceremony is well-paced, meaningful, and intentional, 20 to 30 minutes is all you need to create a powerful moment without losing the room.

Let’s be honest: while your friends and family love you, no one wants to sit through a 45-minute monologue or a never-ending list of readings. Between the weather, uncomfortable seating, fidgety kids, and a reception waiting on the other side, attention spans start to drop fast - especially in outdoor ceremonies or summer heat here in Perth. Keeping things concise helps the emotion land harder and ensures your guests are fully present for every word, not just mentally checking out after the first few.

A great celebrant will help you create a ceremony that’s engaging but efficient  - one that includes the legal must-haves, your personal vows, and a few laughs or tears, all wrapped in under half an hour. It’s about quality, not quantity. Keep it heartfelt, keep it moving, and your guests will remember your ceremony for all the right reasons.

As your celebrant, I know exactly how to strike that perfect balance, blending all the emotion, meaning, and personality into a ceremony that feels effortless, engaging, and beautifully you, all within that ideal 20–30 minute window. With years of experience and a calm, confident approach, I’ll guide you through every step, help you shape your vows, and craft a ceremony that flows naturally and keeps your guests tuned in (and off their phones!). You only get one chance to stand up there and say “I do” — let’s make it unforgettable.

Wedding Venue: The Vines Resort, Western Australia

Photographer: Riley White

Celebrant: Anne Miller Marriage Celebrant